If your spouse refuses, mutual consent divorce isn't possible — you'd be looking at a contested divorce, filed under grounds like cruelty or desertion (Hindu Marriage Act, Section 13). Contested cases are slower, sometimes taking years, and require solid evidence — which is harder to gather from abroad.
A legal notice is often the first practical step. It formally communicates your intent, creates a legal record, and in many cases prompts the other spouse to reconsider.
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